Friday, October 12, 2012

OFF ROADING

KOTA TINGGI-MERSING OFF ROAD TRIP






































 












The sleepy town of Mersing was calling us. The winding and undulating coastal road would be a test for the driver’s dexterity on the wheels. Nothing concrete was planned so it was just a road trip for us to enjoy the view and the unexpected. A roadside durian stall forced us to apply the brakes of our car. They were real kampung durians, claimed Ah Lum. No hybrid of species. We tried the kucing tidur (sleeping cat) specie. It had reddish yellow colour with thick creamy flesh and flat seeds. I would not do any justice if I just say that the durian was nice. I understood immediately the true meaning of ‘heavenly’ immediately.

I saw them during my previous drive along the Kota Tinggi-Mersing Road. The pillboxes or bunkers that scattered around Kota Tinggi lines were constructed earlier before WW2. I believe they were built to improve Singapore’s fortress defences lines during 1937. There was quite a bit of fighting there involving mainly Malaysian, Australian and Japanese soldiers. Evidence of rifle shots and volleys of machine guns hit could be seen. One pill box had its top blown off, most likely by shells. It must be a nasty place to be in the bunker. Nobody could survive with such penetration.

Poor Zac, my nephew must have sworn to have this as the last road trip with me. He had an earful of live lessons from me on Geography and National Education, ranging from oil palm cultivation, river features, gabions, history of Johor Lama, the Japanese Occupation and the elusive Mawas who used to terrorise the Sedili-Mawai area.

Another stop was at the apam balik and fruit stalls. The fruits had just been delivered and the apam balik and the boiled groundnuts were tempting our taste buds. Our next stop was at a keropok lekor factory where we witnessed how fish meat was minced, kneaded, rolled out and boiled for making into keropok lekor. I bought a few kilos of fish cracker. The Tioman jetty terminal was our next stop. Like kids, we played on the swing, took horse rides and gave a go at the buggy along the sandy beach. By then the clouds were darkening and all of a sudden a small twister hit us. The force and strong wind picked up the sand quickly. The sand swirled around us, spraying it in our eyes, face and clothes. I almost lost my balance but managed to take refuge at the shelter nearby. The force died down as sudden as it had started. What an experience it was.

When the rain subsided, we drove to Air Papan Beach, passing by rice fields and home stay offers. We had teh tarik facing the South China Sea. Numerous chalets dotted the coastline. The trip would not be completed without a sea food dinner, with fresh catch from the sea. Two pairs of hornbills decided to add more excitement to our trip. They were flying around and perched on the casuarina tree in front of the restaurant. Since the Endau-Rompin reserve is nearby, they could have flown from there.

We had to be careful driving back along the Kota-Mersing Road at night. Some stretch of the road was pitch black with the trees crowning your car. We passed by a cemetery, the bunkers, an elephant crossing area and vast oil palm plantations. I wonder what happen to the motorcyclist who was hit by a car. The ambulance would take a long time to arrive. Our trip had been filled with the unexpected but was high in fun too.

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Monday, July 2, 2012

WHAT A SCARE!






















A Lesson In Bullying

The class was taken aback and astonished. I was shouting and ranting at Fahmy, my co-form teacher. He was taunted, had his confidence shredded to pieces and left to balance on an egg shell. I snatched his pencil  and flung it on the floorr, at the same time crumpling the set of notes in his hand.  I smacked his back when he did not do as told, threatening him not to report anything to anyone.  I even extorted some cash from him  if he did not want to end up with bruises and blue black marks after school.  You see, I do have 'members' who would do anything for me in order to get favours from me.
 
Little did our students realise that we were role playing a bullying scene. They thought it was one of those rare ugly scenes where their teachers were involved in a fight. No body fidgeted and they just let their eyeballs followed us in whatever we were acting. With ears pricked like startled rabbits, the students listened for every word that was hurled at Fahmy to belittle him from a giant to a dwarf. Fahmy has a six packs but that does not deter me from bullying him,  a female.
 
We wanted the studetns to realise that bullying can gnaw a person hollow of his or her confidence and the will to live. That would explain why some bullying victims ended up taking their own lives when all things seem hopeless to them.  They feel helpless as their dignity and self-worth are stripped naked from them.
 
We facilitated a discusion on why some students choose to bully others next when the students realised that what they were witnessing was just a 'hoax.' We got the the questions rolled out one by one.  Why do bullies bully? Some bullies do it to get attention or things, or to make other people afraid of them. They might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They might have been bullied themselves by parents, siblings or by mates in pimary school. They are unable to win an argument with words, so they use violence or vulgarities. Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behaviour is and how it makes the person being bullied feel.
 
We got the students to think why bullying can be harmful too.  They were full of ideas and suggestions.  They added that some people might think bullying is fun or part of growing up. But bullying can make young people feel lonely, unhappy and frightened.  It makes them feel unsafe.  It makes them think there must be something wrong with them.  They lose confidence and may not want to come to school any more.  It can also make them sick and keep away from school. 

We wanted them to stand up for their rights and to remember that they are not the problem but the BULLY is. As an individual they have a right to feel safe and secure.  One strategy they can take is to spend time with their friends for bullies hardly ever pick on people if they are with others in a group.


We had driven home the message hard on them.  They cannot afford to ignore a bullying  case  which they have witnessed or known of.  They can inform an adult whom they can trust –  a teacher, parents or counselor to help the victim and the bully himself.   This act is not telling tales.


We also reminded them that it’s always best to treat others the way we would like to be treated. We should show the bully that we think what they’re doing is stupid and mean.  We also encouraged our studetns to help the person being bullied to tell an adult they can trust. 

Instead of relying on videos to use as a bait for discusssion, both of us decided to act out the bullying scene.  We had caught them by storm and the learning was so much richer.  I am sure our students would remember this lesson for a long....long time.  They have put themselves in the shoes of being bullied physically or verbally. They must not forget about cyber bully too which can also tramautise the victim. 

Your guess is as good as mine on who would win the 2013 Oscars.
 
I prepared my own slogans for the lessons and had included them in my post. Hope you like them.  The photo shows Fahmy and I who are so passionate on imparting the right values to our students.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

ALLEYCATS: TERIMA KASIHHH!

Alleycats on the prowl at the Esplanade

The hanging design inside the open hall



Stalking up the Alleycats, minus the long claws




Waiting for another sister, Fiz to appear



The men too in black.



The smile shows they are satisfied with the concert



Met Yoyo with her family



A shot before we parted our ways




Cikgu Zaharah Salleh, another person we met



Alleycats in our nationalistic colour - red and white



The band is still tight





ASTRAYED BY ALLEYCATS


My siblings and in-laws attended a two-hour concert by Alleycats last evening at Singapore Esplanade Concert Hall. 'Istimewa Buat Singapura' kicks off Raistar Entertainment’s “Icons from Malaysia 2012” concert series. The concert had promised the band playing songs from the 70s - 2000s. With more than 27 album launches, this legendary and only resident band under Universal Music Malaysia is still on the prowl, with Dato David Arumugam as lead vocalist and iconic figure.


Alleycats is probably the most well-known band of all time in Singapore and Malaysia. Having reigned the pop genre for the last 43 years, the group is still going strong with their last concert performance at Istana Budaya, Malaysia in September 2011. Datuk David Arumugam revelaed that they first song was recorded in Singapore and their last concert here was thirty seven years ago. His Datukship would take another level as his son is about to present him with a grandchild.


Probably the longest surviving pop band today, over 40 all-time hits are a regular on radio waves and they count four generations as fans. Formed in Penang back in 1968, the name “ALLEYCATS” was chosen by their then manager Ronnie Chiang Kai Chok, who was putting the band together. Alleycats' music is said to be influenced by Air Supply, Phil Collins, Bee Gees, Billy Joel, David Gates & Bread, Santana and Paul McCartney.

Loganathan Arumugam, vocalist of the Alleycats, died on June 4, 2007 following an 8 month battle with lung cancer. His death was deeply mourned by Alleycats fans as seen in the press and media. It was a great loss to the band and yesterday's concert proved so. No one could pair up with David, except his own brother Loga.


With Singapore-born M.Nasir behind the many evergreen songs of Alleycats, such as Hingga Akhir Nanti, Andainya Aku Pergi Dulu, Sekuntum Mawar Merah Sebuah Puisi, Setahun Sudah Berlalu and Nota Terakhir, it is no surprise that the ’70s, ’80s and ’90s were dominated by Alleycats.

Datuk David is now 62 years old. He still can deliver his uniquely high-pitched note. The cat wasn't purring yesterday but was still running on a a hot tin roof. Though he still had to take several pauses in between songs for a breather, I truly enjoyed the night. And the concert would not end on a high note without Datuk David's signature ending: “Terrrrima kasihhhh!”


My serenading night was marred by some poor etiquette of some concert goers who mistook the hall as a football field. They were shouting at Loga's replacement and wasn't very polite with their comments. To them, I felt like screaming "Balik Kampungggggg!"

Sunday Surprise


Tea time menu is completed for the day

A quck bite to satisfy my hunger

What a Sunday treat!

The perfect epok-epok which is not soaked in oil

Assorted buns baked by Chef Nas

Have been waiting for the Murtabak Cream Crackers

My pastry done by my wonderful god-sister Nas

Thank you so much Nas



SUNDAY SURPRISE


My god-sister surprised me this Sunday morning by preparing for me her special Murtabak Cream Crackers, Assorted Mini Buns and highly acclaimed epok-epok. I was so simply touched by her gesture to send the special 'treasures for tasting' to my doorstep. I said no and went down to Nas's place instead to get them.

Thank you so much Nas. May Allah Bless